I want to talk about something that I feel men don't realize when they complain about lack of sex in their marriage, because I keep hearing them say when there wife says she is tired, it is just an excuse.
So let's talk about why woman are tired and what that word actually means.
You have to really consider that so many women have taken on more responsibility outside of the home, while having to maintain all the responsibilities inside of it. But their days haven't got any longer, and are no different than yours; so as their time becomes more limited, they need to set priorities in order to get it all done. And caring for their family is always going to take precedent over pleasing their partner, but your included in that family.
I keep hearing you say, why is always about me. But that is just it, sometimes it is never about me, and it about you, your kids, and our house. You say I don't make you feel wanted, but do I cook your meals, clean your clothes, and raise your kids. I am caring for you everyday, even if you don't appreciate or recognize any of those other outlets of affection, and that is why I am tired!
So many women have this tendency to prioritize everyone else above themselves; but if I don't even have time to take care of my own needs, then how can you complain that I am not meeting yours. And this is where your part comes in as a husband; because if you are not willing to share in the mental load or participate in what it takes to run our household, then how can you question my right to be tired or criticize my inability to do it all. So before you ask, if I am doing all I can as a wife, maybe you need to ask yourself if you are doing all you can as a husband, or a father.
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